Yesterday I spend a good chunk of time at the mall buying some great Mothers Day gifts. It was at a mall that I hate because it is SO huge, it literally has every store you could imagine. I know to some that might sound perfect…but to me, its a nightmare. I am not a shopper. I would much rather shop online or at least find gifts ideas online so I know what I’m looking for, but at the same time I wanted to put effort into my Mother’s Day gifts this year, online shopping sometimes just feels like a cop out. I find it all quite overwhelming! Last year, I found shopping so much easier because I did all of my research online beforehand. My mom is a great seamstress so I simply searched for some gifts for seamstresses online and found some things which were great! They went down a treat and she really appreciated them. However, this year I couldn’t think of anything that would top last year’s gifts so I had to go to the mall for some inspiration. However, I do love me some Last Chance {sorry to anyone that doesn’t live in AZ, therefor not having a Last Chance} but mall shopping- no thank you. Too many stores, perfumes, crying kids, etc. I also always get overwhelmed thinking about how much excess we all live in. For instance, I treated myself to a really cute belt today. It was $9, which for me was actually a little pricey compared to LC prices! By no means did I need this belt, but I liked it, and it made me happy. I just so happen to have a belt at home that looks freakishly similar to the one I just purchased, does this make ANY sense?! Nope! Why do we feel the need to buy everything in excess??
Moving off of that rant, I did get some presents for the best two moms in the world!
I want to know, do y’all have traditions for Mothers Day? I met a lady at the mall who said every mother’s day she uses Noveltystreet, a website to buy cool stuff, to buy her mom some crazy and funny gifts, rather than the traditional, candles, and chocolates, etc. She said that when she was a little girl, she bought her mom a silly gift, and well, that tradition has just stuck! I know growing up, us kids would wake up really early and ‘surprise’ my mom with a {most likely} terrible breakfast in bed. My amazing GMA also lived with us, so we did the same for her. We would go out and pick a rose or two from the front yard and make sure to include those on their trays. We would then sit on my mama’s bed and watch her eat breakfast and open our presents to her. We would LOVE this time, making her feel extra loved and cherished because that was what she was! Now, I have two moms, and I go to places like Fiesta Flowers Plants & Gifts rather than picking roses from the garden! I am married and don’t live with either mom. So instead of making my mom breakfast in bed, we are having a BBQ at our house on Mother’s Day for my family. My MIL is out of town this weekend, so next week my sister in law is having belated Mothers Day brunch at her house later. I truly love this time to celebrate them and make them feel special, because after all-they do the hardest job there is. I fully believe that being a mom is the hardest job there is, granted I’m not a mom yet, but that’s what I believe for now.
So, what are your traditions? If you are a mom, what are some things you wish or hope your kids would do for you so that I can try to implement that as well!
<3,
Adri
Janette - The2Seasons says
I have learned that the best gifts for my mom and mother in law are gift cards to Lowe’s. They use them to buy their summer garden flowers and can enjoy the beauty till the first frost in the autumn. They look forward to it, and it is easy for me.
Angy says
We typically do a gift card to get a mani/pedi. That’s my mom’s fave! Take her out to dinner. My mom thinks buying flowers is a waste since they die so quickly, so we’ve thrown that tradition out the window lol.
Sue says
Enjoy it, time passes to quickly. This is my first Mother’s Day without my mum ๐
adrianne says
Janette- such a great idea! At first I was thinking..hmmm my mom and MIL don’t do too much home improvement shopping-but for the flowers-genius!
Angy-what mom wouldn’t want a mani/pedi?!? So true about the flowers too!
Sue-I am so sorry:( hope it’s not as hard of a day as you think it will be. I’ll say a prayer for your heart that day.
<3,
adri
Glennie says
My Mum always used to say every day was Mother’s Day because she had us. This will be my third Mother’s Day without her …
Anonymous says
Wonderful blog today! Just wish I could see what is in the bags…..lol <3 You are a great DIL!
adrianne says
Glennie, I am so sorry to heard that. Your mom sounded like an incredible woman.
Hhaha thanks debbie. You will see soon enough:)
<3,
Adri
Jenny Belle says
Being a mom is the best job even if it is the hardest. I snuggled in bed with the two handsomest men in the world! They are too little to understand Mother’s Day (and unfortunately Jed was at the Phoenician cooking an amazing brunch 600 other mothers), but the boys and I had a wonderful morning painting and coloring in my Mom Book that we just started. I got the idea from Real Simple (http://www.realsimple.com/work-life/family/kids-parenting/homemade-gifts-for-mom-00000000057435/index.html). I told Jed that he and the boys are “obligated” to write/color/paste/paint/whatever for Mother’s day and my birthday every year (maybe even Christmas, Halloween and Earth day ๐ I think this will be one of my most treasured gifts, much better than a scented candle or bouquet of flowers. I suggest every mom start this no matter how big your kids are!